Sunday, December 16, 2007.

I'm pretty sure A LOT of people out there whom I know have this. Most of them would have realized that they have it by now, but perhaps they just don't change.

Maybe we aren't as lousy as we think. We reflect on ourselves, and wonder exactly how and why people regard ourselves so well when we 100% feel we don't deserve it at all. How in the world are we that good when we know we haven't put in our best?

But perhaps, these people are really too good, that even if not at their 100% best they simply own everyone else. They don't realize that not being at their best they can does not equate to not being good at all. I have seen people who are simply so good yet refuse to believe that they are as such.

It's contagious. It is really a dangerous, confidence-shattering disease. People believe it's either confidence-shattering or ego-boosting, until the point when they fall so hard cause their egos are too big, and between the two they pick confidence-shattering. People forget the third option.

One needs to find and appease the mind, to tell it that there is INDEED a 3rd option, and not feel so inferior after all. After all what is life when you feel so downcast and emo?

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